For Serious realtionship

I’m a

Men from tripoli

Seeking Woman

- Dating

for Serious realtionship

In Libya tripoli

Marital Status: Single

Do you have children? No

Age: 34 years

Height: 5'9

Body Type: Average

Do you drink?: No

Do you smoke?: No

Headline: MAN

I define myself: To let you to Know a little more about myself and what I'm looking for. I answered 3 questions pertaining to just that. (Within the span of the 3 questions mind you). well thought out, Honest... even blunt in a few places. And perhaps a tad overzealous... but... what Do they say? "Shoot for the moon... then negociate. : ) It's not everything, but a Good Place to Start. I figure.... Throw it all out there, if you Like it... Wonderful... we'll Go from there. If not... Look at all the Time we've saved... : ) Probably a tad more info than you'd Want at this Point... but.... why not... I'm a Pretty Open Book... : ) 3 questions: 1- What would you Consider to Be your most important personal values? The First being the most important. Try not to limit yourself to one word answers. 1- Providing an emotional and financially Secure environment for myself and my son. Raising him to the best of my ability. Being able to Meet his needs as a father. Putting his needs before my Own. 2- Keeping anger out of my life as Much as possible. It is a Waste of time and doesn't solve anything. 3- Taking full responsibility for life and what happens in it. Positive or negative, I either created it or allowed it to Happen. 4- Learning from the past, living in the Present, being as Happy as I can be now. (Who knows, I could get hit by a bus tomorrow!) Reaching & then setting new goals. 2- What qualities are you looking for in a woman? physically, emotionally and sexually. Must be brilliant, Creative, Funny, capable of intense intimacy and joy. must want to Share Music, Nature, peaceful, quiet, joyful life. Must Love learning and want to grow forever. beautiful, with glorious eyes. Stunning figure, Sensitive, Sensual, Spontaneous, Passionate, gentle and loving. Affectionate and sexy as can Be. Must be emotionally stable, Honest and Trustworthy and a positive constructive woman. A woman who could be (or is) a Caring mother with a child or children, but...."watch out" ! when she gets you alone with her! 100% woman! I would want a woman (sorry, here comes the Sex stuff!) that can..... A.- Make Passionate love and not just lay there. Have Sex, or be downright nasty if the mood strikes her. A woman who knows how to get a Man in the "mood". (Even if he already is!) B.- Be open to talking about & trying different aspects of love making. Not just doing the SAME thing, the same way every Time. (How boring!) A woman who can be sexually creative, not leaving it up to her man all the time. C.- A woman who actually Has fantasies of her own! D.- A woman who likes to make love more than once a month. Not too many taboos when it comes to sex (as Long as there is no pain involved, I Hate pain!) I figure, if it sounds interesting and won't Hurt anyone, do it and if you didn't like it, you don't have to do it again. But at least you tried. E.- A Great kisser! (Among other things.) F.- Oral Sex..... A must!! I LOVE it....!! (fondly Call it "Dessert") Giving and receiving.. (one of the few parts of my body that never gets tired) A woman who enjoys it as much as I Do. Look at it this way.... when I'm 70... all I'll be looking for is someone capable of dialing 911 if I Fall. : ) 3- In a Relationship between a man and a woman.....Romance and passion (in my opinion), are just as important as anything else.......but they seem to be the first two aspects to die off over time. How could a man and woman keep the Romance and Passion alive in a long term relationship? Those two seem to be the first to Arrive and the first to Leave in a Relationship. In the beginning of being together it seems as if you can't get enough of each other. Life with the other is wonderful. There isn't anything you wouldn't do for the other. But.....as time goes by, you both become "comfortable" with being together and becoming "Passionate and Romantic" almost becomes a hassle rather than a desire. The Answer is Simple, yet difficult to achieve. A.- Once you've entered into a loving Relationship, make a Promise to yourself that keeping the Romance and Passion alive is your responsibility. No one elses. It's up to you and you alone to keep that Fire burning and if it should dwindle or die, you'll have only yourself to blame. Now Imagine if your "significant other made that same promise to herself. Wouldn't life be grand? easier said than done.........but it could be done! B- What ever you did in the beginning to Catch him (her), be prepared to Continue doing it. That's the reason why you caught him or her in the first Place. When we meet people that we believe we might Like, we tend to do things or be a certain way to Impress them. Sometimes, we do things that are most likely not in our Nature to Do, but we tend to do them anyway. then, once you've got him or her, you Feel you don't have to do those things anymore. That would be the beginning of the End of you both as a couple. If you feel you have to act like someone else instead of who you really are to Attract someone, not only are you lying to them (which says a lot about your self worth), but the relationship is doomed to Fail from the beginning. C- And probably the most important. Usually, the loss of Passion and Romance between two people is a symptom of an underlying or unresolved problem, not the problem itself. It's as if, after a Time, Passion and Romance become things to be bartered or (the lack of) used as a Type of punishment. You do this for me and I'll be more Romantic. You do that for me and I'll be more Passionate. You both lose. sad thought, but true. Solve the problems. If you can't solve them yourselves then get SOME Help. Remember, you're supposed to be in love with each other. If you can't or won't solve them, then the relationship must never have been that important to you or the other in the first place and should be ended. Life is too short! Don't go into a relationship thinking you can Change them, or that over time, they'll Change. nine times out of ten, they won't. What you get by the end of the first year, is most likely, what you'll Remain with. The only person you Have, or should have any control over, or the ability to change is yourself. It's interesting.. we're all looking for basicially the same thing.. only packaged in whats both Find mutually Attractive with a lifestyle that's compatable. Therein lies the proverbial "Needle in a haystack" And with this Form of communication, the haystack has become huge, but with fewer needles.. however... I have Found that it's not "just" looks... "just" sex.... "just" intelligence... "just" money..... or for that Matter "just" one of any particular aspect. It's a Nice Mix of it all that makes it so great yet at the same time... so difficult to Find.... Goals.... Desires.... non-negotiables..... the rest is compromise.... and having the ability to Communicate them.... See... there you Go..... very Simple.... Add mutual attraction and you have it made.... You have to Remember.... Love is like a mural.... takes time to Paint... and time to Appreciate..... not a dimestore picture Frame that holds a 3X5 photo.....